Spring Cleaning: Friendship Edition

Hello Baysiders! Hope is well in your soul this lovely spring day! Yes, its spring already, the time when flowers bloom, Daylight Savings occurs, the color green covers the hills, and when new life sprouts out. Now that we have passed the Easter hangover, let’s focus on growing in the Lord.

As we move along in 2021, let’s have a spring mentality to our relationships. Spring is a time for new life, old ways gone, dead branches trimmed, making room for healthy growth and there is no better area for spring power than friendship. Friendships are so crucial for the blossoming of our lives. The people we confide in, trust with our deepest secrets, laugh and cry with, rely on when times are rough are the people who shape and mold us to the people we are going to be. Proverbs 13:20 says, “He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed.” You become who you surround yourself with. It’s human nature. Who we admire and trust with our hearts are those we will be like. If you associate with people who gossip, you will eventually gossip. If you spend a lot of time with cynical and judgemental people, you will eventually be judging others and think the worse of people and their situation. On the other hand, if you are close to graceful and humble friends, you will develop grace and humility in your life. As a kid my mother would call all of us brothers together and organize a spring cleaning day for the house. No one liked it because it implied hours of chores and cleaning but my mother knew it was the time of year to get rid of the dust and unneeded clutter, clear the home of any misplaced house items and provide a clean environment to thrive in.

My pastor encouragement today for us is do a friendship inventory, examine who are the people that blossom your life to the direction you want to grow and who are the ones dwarfing and suffocating your growth as a child of God. Maybe some spring cleaning with your friendships is the solution to your parched circumstance or disheartening progress in life? Jesus shows us a few good friends are better than many friends who are no good. Jesus’ circle was small. He he was friends with everyone but only had friendships with a select few who were part of the same mission of God. Jesus had to draw away from people, abstain from toxic individuals and even said no to certain friendships that were fun for the moment but for the health of his relationship with God, he avoided. Jesus hung out with twelve men, and really was close to only three of them as his closet friends, Peter, James and John (some would say John being his BFF). Jesus was deliberate and selective who he called friends (John 15:15) and I think we should do the same and take a lesson off the old Jesus page. Be conscious who you associate with, call friends, or allow to have influence on you because they can either grow you or stunt you. It’s ok to only have three friends. It’s more than fine to only have one great solid friend. Jesus did. Do some spring cleaning with your friend circle and find out who you need to water or those who are the dead branches you need to break off. The power of spring cleaning with friendships is it provides a soft fertile soil that cultivates an abundance of fruit for your life. You will be enriched in life and it wont be from any amount of dollar bills.

Sunday, the 25th we are doing some spring cleaning at the church! We will be focusing on the interior of the building as we will be vacuuming, dusting, sweeping all the cracks, rooms and corners of the church. Bring a change of clothes for this event as it will start at 12:30pm after service. Lastly we are having a Family Meeting the following Sunday, May 3rd, at 12:30pm in the dinning fellowship room. Please make effort and join these opportunities to serve and fellowship.

Pandemic Anniversary

Hello Baysiders! Hope all is well in your souls and you are adjusting from daylight savings over the weekend. The time changing always prepares my mind for spring and Easter.

Today marks the last church service we conducted a year ago before the pandemic shutdown in our country. It’s been one year since everyone’s lives in the world changed. Last year this time toilet paper was a hot commodity, hand sanitizer was the new gold, and Costco was a zoo to get in with a three hour wait time in the line. And if you forgot, let me remind you of the Tiger King phenomenon as we sat in quarantine seeking some form of entertainment and escapism. A lot of our fun social venues were shut down. I knew it was really getting serious when Disneyland shutdown. Many of us were afraid on what the future would look like. Is the virus deadly? Will this be forever? Do masks work? All these questions were big headlines in political news. Last March 15th before Church started some members texted me they were not coming due to the uncertainty of the virus, others texted me on if service was still going on and a few showed up to worship the Lord. It was a weird time for pastoring as no one has ever gone through this before. The last sermon I preached on was from Matt 6:24-34 and it was about not worrying because God will take care of all our fears and needs. That lesson is still true today. So much has happened in 365 days but in the midst of all the ups and downs God remains faithful and is here with us. We have been together through Webex, YouTube and the traditional home visits and phone calls. Despite the pandemic, God has been working miracles, as the church is flourishing, growing faith in members, a baptism, we celebrated our 60th church anniversary last month and we have a great newly installed live stream system for our online viewers. God has been busy at Bayside.

It’s always good to look back in life and consider all that God has done for you and I. In this fast passé and quick lived life it is easy to forget the wonderful works God has done for us. Let’s not have covid memory fog and remember the great blessings God has done for us. Psalms 143:5 says, “I remember the days of old. I ponder all your great works. I think about what you have done.” Numerous times from all of scripture, we are given examples of memorials and instruction to remember the past for all what God has done for us. When we do this we are transported to heaven’s file cabinet of records on all the blessings we have from God. We need this. Why? Because we quickly forget how God has been faithful to us just as quickly time moves in our calendars. Reminiscing humbles us and quiets our souls of any worry or need to control the situation. Church, look back to one year ago today and what do you see? Do you see progress? Or do you see regression? Or maybe you see stagnation? Whatever it is, there is room for God to work because hope is always there and grace available to those who seek it. The Pandemic might have affected 2020 and have lingering results for years to come, but grace is more powerful than some virus and we are God’s children and His power and love is what we are defined by. This is truth to be remembered.

Thank you to all those who came by last Sunday to the church cleaning day! I am so grateful for each one of you to help make the church look nice. It was a great blessing to have Pastor Morgan and his team stop by and assist us. Lastly, the wait is over church. Starting April 4th, we are meeting together at 11am to start our physical worship service once again at Bayside. Its so special because it’s Easter that day and there is no better way to celebrate the risen Lord than being together. Seating is designated by blue tape and certain aisles are closed off to secure safe social distancing while gathering together for worship. Sunday morning Bible study with Raymond in the fellowship dining hall, and Wednesday Night Devotion in the sanctuary will resume. Please see church covid-19 guidelines for more details.

Grace and peace ?:^)

Pastor Aaron,

The Love Chapter

Happy February Baysiders! Hopefully you all have enjoyed the rain so far this year. Its always good to see God’s good green earth get hydrated.

It’s no secret that the month of February hosts the day of love in the year, Valentine’s Day. It seem like retailers start selling kisses and chocolate hearts the day after Christmas. Love, love, love, love is everywhere. The radio has their love songs playing on repeat, advertisers market love with catchy slogans and banners, Netflix rolls out their cheesy chick flicks that have been in storage all year.

And you know what? The Bible is full of love too, from beginning, middle and end. God is all about love, in fact, the Bible says God IS love (1 John 4:8). There is a whole chapter in the Bible dedicated to love; it’s actually known as the love chapter for Christians. But surprisingly there are no romantic poems, cupid, hearts, no reference to finding your true love, or chocolate boxes. But there is love and a description of it. The Apostle Paul takes time in his letter to the Corinthian church and writes out what love looks like for God’s people. And it’s action. True love, according to the love chapter is a verb, not a feeling or romance. Actually there is no romance in it at all. It’s better. It’s an action dependent on a choice to better someone else. It’s not about you. Once you make love about you, it’s no longer love. This is what was one of the problems in the Corinthian church, they loved but it wasn’t godly love, it was worldly love which is really lust–“whats in it for me?” They only thought about themselves on how they can be served rather than serve others. It was a divided church who complained about their leaders and wasn’t being a good example to the world. They were proud, tribalistic, ambitious, and selfish in their relationships. So Paul says, “Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth…” In all of that description, there is not a self serving or self centered attitude but its all other-centered. This the essence of true love.

1 Corinthians 13 was not written with a wedding ceremony in mind. It’s not meant to give us warm, fuzzy feelings. This chapter is Paul’s word of rebuke to a church marked by great miracles and charisma, but by little maturity and character. One sign of mature faith is how you love. How we love others will prove we are one God’s children. Here is the good news, we can have it because God has given us love and shows us love. By faith we can enter into divine love and act it out in our lives. This what God wants from us, to pass along his love to others. When we are unloving, God loved us, when we are unlovable, God makes us lovely. And when we have this deep in our hearts, then all our relationship, causal, romantic, marital, platonic, will be deep and dressed in divine love from heaven. Let’s love like God church.

Thank everyone who showed up to last Sunday’s cleaning day! It was a huge help and the church looks sharp and clean. We are having an outside gathering on February 28th at 1pm in the church parking lot to celebrate Bayside’s 60th anniversary. This will be a time of fellowship, prayer and gratitude for all the wonderful things God has done in and through Bayside Community Church. Pastor Aaron will share a short message on God’s faithfulness in the community of our church. Refreshments and appetizers will be provided. Mask wearing and CDC guidelines will be implemented in this time of gathering. Lastly we having another Church Cleaning Day on March 7th at 1pm. Pastor Morgan and his young adult group will be here to help.

Grace and peace ?:^)

Pastor Aaron

Keeping the First Things First

Hello Baysiders! Hope the new year is treating you wonderful and you all are keeping up with your New Year goals and resolutions.

I don’t think there is ever a non-busy season of life. Even on vacation busyness can steal away from the rest. 2021 didn’t give us any rest as it seems the issues from 2020 overflowed into this year. The pandemic, election, earthquakes, closed down businesses, unemployment and other struggles has drained us from our focus, keeping us busy yet not really making any significant progress in our lives. It’s so easy to get lost in the business of life. It’s so easy to get wrapped up in yourself. It’s so easy to lose focus on what really matters. It’s so easy to just give up and be negative about life.

The concerns of this life can blur our vision of God. You cannot let the world, the Devil, or yourself to dictate your faith; thats the easy thing to do. We are called to do the hard thing. The hard thing is to choose hope, love, patience, and the beautiful over the ordinary. Let your faith dictate your faith.  Be on top of your circumstance and soar over the issue and find peace and joy in God. Have your eyes on God, keep your mind above, and stay focus on the truth. Putting God first in everything is the means in living peacefully. When God is number one in your life, above anyone or anything else, he adds all that is needed. Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” God knows your problems, He is aware of your situation, and he will help you with all of them, but you need to pay attention to God and not the busyness and stresses.

What’s distracting you from trusting God? What’s getting in the way of your commitment with Jesus? What’s stealing your peace and joy? Christians can’t let secondary issues distract us from God or let doubtful situations to deplete us of our faith. C.S Lewis once said, “Put first things first and you get second things thrown in; put second things first and you lose both first and second things.” Believers get taken up on practicalities of life and the worries of tomorrow and we push faith aside. Keep God first and he will bring everything into place. Even when it seems like life isn’t going your way, keep trusting in God, do the hard right thing and the fruit will come.

Next week is our Church Cleaning Day and will be focusing on outside yard work with trimming, pulling, and cutting. Come ready to serve with your yard clothes and enjoy the fellowship. Mark your calendar for the last Sunday in February as we will be celebrating Bayside’s 60th Anniversary! Come join us for outside fellowship to share what God has done for and through Bayside Church over the years. There will be refreshments and hor’derves provided.

Grace and peace to you all ?:^)

Pastor Aaron

Just In Time For Christmas

Howdy Baysiders! We have made it to the end of 2020 as the celebration of the birth of Jesus is around the corner and I hope we all are trusting God for the last days of this year .

We arrived just in time for Christmas because baby Jesus is the answer to our current pandemic crises around the world. We all have been through so much in 2020 and the message of Christmas is the gospel message we need to hear. During the holiday rush and stress, there is hope in Christmas. I love what the angel of the Lord tells the shepherds outside of Bethlehem, “This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger,” Luke 2:12. In the midst of their job, in the dark, under government oppression, God comes to them with good news. This news is God with us. Thats the power of baby Jesus that God came into our human condition to be with us and save us.

In a time when we might not feel like being in the Christmas spirit or decorating and we prefer to be upset or critical Jesus in the manger reminds us there is always time to have joy. Christmas tells us its not about the stuff or material things we have made the holiday to be but about our hearts being humbled and receptive to God when its least expected. God chose a poor girl, tiny town, and farming tool to bring forth his promise for the world. Think about that. God’s ways aren’t our ways. This is the essence of Christmas, a joyful heart over God’s love for the world. No virus or bad economy can take that away. Some of us have lost our Christmas mojo, perhaps its covid related, or maybe its just getting old and so we are grumpy, cynical, depressed. The manger offers us good news. It’s not about you. Never has been or was. Its about God entering our world and Jesus being the star of the show. We graciously get to be the audience to witness this miracle. The angel tells the shepherds go find Jesus in the manger in Bethlehem. This is our application this holiday season. Go find Jesus. No matter the circumstance you are in, go find him, he is there, Christmas is available if you seek it. Find Jesus today and share joy to the world.

We will be remaining with our online church services and Bible Studies entering the new year until further notice. Wednesday Night devotion will be going on winter break starting on December 23rd and resuming January 13th. Any questions or concerns please reach out to me.

Grace and peace ?:^)

Pastor Aaron

Finish Strong

Hello Baysiders! Hope all is well in your souls in this Thanksgiving season. The holidays are upon us and the woes of 2020 tempt us to rush through the end of the year to start fresh for 2021. But this isn’t the movie Click (a must watch film about appreciating your current circumstance).

We must finish strong. In the midst of stress and hardship of our season we as God’s people are to remain strong and hopeful. God’s strength is available to anybody who is willing to receive it. When we are weak and tired, God is ready to equip us and give us the strength to finish the task. In order to sustain the difficulty, you must rely on God’s supernatural power, and not depend on your natural power. My natural abilities tells me to give up, don’t try harder, take it easy, don’t trust God anymore, and to be hopeless. Being confident in God’s strength is the route to rest in his arms while he carries us through the fire.

The first step in attaining God’s strength is confessing your weakness and asking for his help. Nobody likes to admit “I’m weak.” No one enjoys or wants to feel out of control or helpless. But, in reality, you and I must learn that in our weakness moments, the Lord is free to do his greatest work in us. It is in these trying times that you can experience God’s power. 2 Corinthians 12:10 says, “For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. All strength needed is available to you through Jesus for any time of your life—good or bad—adversity, suffering, or misfortune.  Resist your pride and confess your inadequacies and frailty to God, and dwell in his everlasting grace and love. There is no guarantee that 2021 will be better, and sorry to be the bearer of bad realistic news but this pandemic is so unpredictable and assuming a fresh start to a new year will fix everything is fanciful. Most likely all the issues and stresses will be there on January 1st 2021. But this is no reason to panic or be down. What is guaranteed is God’s strength for the weak who want it and need it. God is who is promised and never changes and is our stability in the ever changing seasons of life. God’s strength is more than enough for this year, next year and even today.

As for now, Bayside Church is open for in person service on Sundays and for Bible studies on Sunday morning and Wednesday night. Webex is available for those who rather stay at home for health concerns. Mark your calendar for November 29th because its our Christmas Decorating Day. Come join us and help decorate the interior of church with Christmas decorations. This will occur right after service. Let’s come together each week and take advantage of this time as we don’t know when we will be lockdown again during this pandemic.

Grace and peace,

Pastor Aaron ?:^)

Waiting With God’s Word

Happy Autumn Baysiders, hope all is well in your souls!

There is so much going in our world right now, from the global virus to the presidential election, its easy for us to be stressed out and just rush to the finish line of 2020 and start the next year. Probably for anyone, one of the hardest jobs to do is to wait. Wait for next year, wait for the virus to have a vaccine and social distancing be done with, wait for the church to reopen again for Sunday service, wait to go to the movie theater, wait for the NBA to start up again, wait for the election to be over, wait for your left overs to be heated in the microwave.

Waiting is the place no one wants to be in however its a place we all are aware of. Can we be good waiters? Can we be so good at waiting that waiting looses its sting and blow and we thrive in the wait? Psalm 19:7 says, “The law of the Lord is perfect, reviving the soul. The statutes of the Lord are trustworthy, making wise the simple.” A way to rest from waiting is God’s word. The Bible is jammed packed with truth and its truth that pushes away false ideas and negative thoughts. The word of God is perfect and complete, it has everything you need to know for your particular situation. Sometimes we can get stuck in an emotional rut and our feelings dictate the course of the day but whatever the reason may be, you can always trust God’s word. His promises and words are faithful and will not let you down. Truth awakens, revives, and affirms the soul. God’s word is medicine for our stress in waiting, just as water is for thirst. So you must not listen to the voices in your head, but instead talk to the voices. Talk against the negative words with God’s words; fight back with scripture! The fight against hating waiting is the battle to believe the promises of God, and faith comes by hearing the word of God.

Be encourage Baysiders! Christ is on the throne and is working all things together for our good and his glory. The holidays are upon us and its time to refocus on the gift of love in Jesus coming as a baby. This is what we have now, no more waiting on God because he has already given us himself for overcoming anything this life throws at us.

Grace and peace,

Pastor Aaron ?:^)

Be Still.

Howdy Baysiders! Happy August! Hope you all had a great summer and are well rested as we enter the end of summer.

I once heard a pastor say, “In the end, busyness makes us look important but cripples our relationships. Busyness feeds our egos but ultimately starves our souls. Busyness fills our calendars but fractures our families. And busyness props up our images but shrinks our hearts.” This quote has stuck with me all these years and reminds me to prioritize not just my activities but feelings and thoughts. We can look so busy and yet not be productive. This is the illusion of busyness. It tricks us into thinking we are doing important and meaningful things when its just a smoke screen for what we are really neglecting. Are you sacrificing your intimacy with God for the idols of busyness, achievement, and pleasing people?

Psalms 46:10 says, “Be still and know that I am God.” For some of us being still is a difficult task to do, yet God wants this from us. It is only when we are silent and at rest that we can see God’s plan in our life. The pandemic has shifted all our lives and it can be challenging adjusting to the new normal. This is even more reason to be still and stay in the moment and not chase the next busy thing to do. Life is too fast to be losing yourself in the hustle and bustle of the demands of being busy. Slow down and reflect on God’s awesomeness.  Life is already high-speed so why speed up life with your hurry up mind set and action? I always try to keep myself one day ahead of yesterday. Stay present, appreciate the moment. Don’t live in the past and don’t live in the future, but live in the now. The here and now is what matters. Busyness can ruin the blessings in front of you if you’re not careful. If you are always on the move, being a workaholic, then rest itself will be a work to do. But God tells us in His word to be still and know! Know that God is over your life, guiding and providing for you. Thus you don’t have to be busy all the time or worry about getting everything done on your to-do-list. If we don’t practice regular stillness with God then we will look busy but not be productive on what really matters. Yes, you might get that promotion, raise, A+, or pat on the back, but at what expanse? The suffering of your relationship with your spouse, kids, God? God did not create us to be multitaskers, only God can do that. Be still Christian. It’s ok. God is working when you are not. Learn to stop and take a breather and look in your life considering all your blessings because all we have is the now, which is the best present we can open.

As our public gatherings are still unavailable I want to encourage everyone to remain joyful and hopeful. God still works, speaks and loves, no matter the situation we face. No virus can stop the grace of God. Let’s continue to talk and meet up with one another through Webex and Youtube. We are having a Prayer Night on August 21st at 7pm. Please come out and join us in prayer as we wait and see how God is going to move in our church and nation. I want to thank everyone for their financial contributions during this pandemic season. Your tithes and offerings are greatly appreciative and a huge part of sustaining this ministry.

Grace and peace ?:^)

Pastor Aaron

The Waiting

Howdy Baysiders! Happy June! Hope you all are getting plenty of sunshine and fun in this season.

Pastor confession: I hate waiting. I admit I am not the best at waiting and wish I had some time flux capacitor to speed up the boring waiting moments in life. But I can’t be the only one who has a problem with waiting, right? Some are better than others in waiting patiently but no one gets excited for waiting; I’m still waiting for the cool waiting club to open up. Let’s all be honest, no one likes to wait, and our society doesn’t help us on being patient. Everything is fast pace and designed to speed up any process. That’s why there are microwaves, fast food, Fastrack, Wi-Fi, on demand television; we live in a get it now world. And here lies the problem, that’s not how God works; God works in the waiting, uses the waiting for his greater purposes. To receive the best from God you are going to have to learn to wait—and I mean a quiet trusting confidence kind of wait; not a quarreling whining fretful kind of wait—that’s called impatience. It doesn’t help if you are fidgeting and doubting God. True patience is a silence hope in God’s faithfulness. The Bible says, “Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord,” (Psalm 27:14). 

Do you believe in God’s goodness? Do you trust that God knows what he is doing? With God’s power and strength, you can get through the wait. It takes bravery to trust God, and not depend or listen to yourself and others, courage is needed to close your eyes and open your heart and believe in God’s promises. It takes great faith to wait on God, but how great the reward is! As I once heard, “patience is bitter, but it’s fruit is sweet.” May we confess our impatience and cling to God’s faithfulness for in doing so we will find the hope, love and joy we desire in our waiting.

Happy Father’s Day to all the dads and dad-like role models! Your work, love and support is appreciated and may the good Lord bless you extra special today. This coming Sunday, June 21st, is Father’s Day and there will be a special sermon for this occasion so tune into our YouTube channel and invite others to watch. Our next month’s Prayer Night will be on July 10th at 7pm on Webex. Please join us for this wonderful spiritual moment of praying for our church, nation and world. Lastly a Covid-19 church update, as of now we will be remaining closed for public gathering on Sunday and continuing with online church via YouTube and Webex. My prayer is that, depending on the decrease of new virus cases and curve dwindling in our area, we will wisely and slowly take steps on reopening the church for late July. But again, if our current climate of the virus hasn’t made significant change and a new wave hits our area then we will resume our online church services. Please keep this all in prayer and for God’s will to be done for our country and church.

Grace and peace ?:^)

Pastor Aaron

Eternally Grand Grace

Hello Baysiders, Hope all is well in your souls!

Let’s talk about grace. What can I say about grace? Lots of stuff to discuss on grace but keeping it short the first thought that comes to mind is grace is the reason why you and I are here; it is unmerited favor. Grace is not just for salvation, but also for sanctification. Grace not only gets us saved but keeps us saved and keeps on saving us! You can’t walk, talk, and live with God apart from His grace. Paul says in 2 Corinthians 9:8, “God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.” The good works and allowance that you have is God, not of our own will power.

Grace is more than a free undeserved gift: grace is the capacity to do anything spiritually profitable. You can’t pray without grace, can’t understand the Bible without grace, you can’t choose right over wrong without grace, and you can’t have faith without grace. This is why dependence on God is so important. If you depend on your own strength and will, you will always be frustrated and disappointed. Grace is everything in the life of a believer and is the reason we praise! When we realize everything is from God’s grace we respond with gratitude and praise. God’s grace is so eternally grand that it extends to non-Christians and blesses those who don’t follow God! How is that fair? Its not, but thats why its called grace! Grace isn’t fair; if it was fair, none of us will be deserving of it and we would all be doomed. Yet God loved you and I when we were far away from him and didn’t trust him. God is so awesome, loving, and GRACIOUS that He expands His goodness and favor on ALL people! God’s loving kindness and grace is so powerful that it extends not only in my own life but to the lives of others. May we share this grace of God to each one we encounter in our daily lives.

Congratulations Jessica! Our sister was baptized last Sunday and it was glorious to witness. Please keep her in your prayers and she walks in her new journey with Jesus. Here is a link to the baptism if anyone wants to check it out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHK9y1tcFBA&t=43s. This Sunday we are starting our new sermon series in the book of Galatians! I am excited on what God will do with us as a church through the words of the Apostle Paul.

Let’s not forget to keep our regular tithing and giving going. Thank you to all those who have been tithing in this pandemic adjustment! Your offerings and financial gifts are beneficial and impactful to Bayside Church. In times of distress and scarcity, generosity is most felt and powerful. Please don’t grow tired of giving as God will provide for our every need. You can always tithe three ways by mail, Venmo, or Pastor pick up. Proverbs 11:25, “The generous soul will be made rich, and he who waters will also be watered himself.”

Grace and peace ?:^)

Pastor Aaron